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Please help - spouse visa / Discussion: Arranged / Love Marriage
Posted on 14/11/2005 1:10 pm
Please help - spouse visa / Discussion: Arranged / Love Marriage
Perhaps some of u remember me
so my status is now married and i am currently in India.I have applied for spouse visa on the last week of Oct2005.As i am only married on the third week of oct 2005, its very hard for both of us to stay apart.My wife is german and she is back in Germany now.she is having a job there and we have completed all the formalities that are required by german embassy in india.Please help me if there is any way or possiblity by which i can speedup my visa processing????is this the right way if i call the embassy every week and ask for my status?Can someone explain me,what is the exact process(step by step) adopted by german embassy in india for granting spouse visa?
She is expecting me to be with her on Christmas..
deathinc
Member since 03/06/2005
Posted on 14/11/2005 2:54 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
"She is expecting me to be with her on Christmas.."
sure...
in India
DvD
Member since 30/11/2004
Posted on 14/11/2005 3:50 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
@DvD
Come on...lets not be sarcastic.
The rate german gals going gaga over Bollywood, wouldn't surprise me if India being favorite hubby-markt for chicks
@deathinc
So..love hath finally overcome all the obstacles.
Pleased to know that finally you made slight progress in your case. Calling them up everyday will simply piss them off, so dont do it.
In your case they normally hire a private detective and wait for his report. The following things are chekced:
-that you married her out of love, not for getting yourself inside germany and then ditch her.
-if you have paid money to her to get married to you (scheinehe).
-if the income of both partner suffice for livelihood and you are no burden to german social system.
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Akshay
Member since 21/03/2005
Posted on 14/11/2005 7:53 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
U told that they will hire a detective,i want to know will they hier in india or in germany?and ur third point about income so rightnow i dont have any job in G but she is earning enough for both of us.How will he investigate the things will he check our bank accounts or what?or will he only talk to us and how he will make any decision??we have very strange situation because we never meet eachother befor and the day she arrived in india,she got converted and after 2 days we got married and on the 5th day we applied for visa(we did it all in hurry because she has only 10 days holidays)and earlier this year my visa is denied 3times.so all this things make them in suspesion and can cause in delaying??
deathinc
Member since 03/06/2005
Posted on 14/11/2005 8:21 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
"we have very strange situation because we never meet eachother befor and the day she arrived in india,she got converted and after 2 days we got married"
"earlier this year my visa is denied 3times"
Sorry man.. that smells terribly "scheinehe".. Do you guys have also a big age gap ? (say 20 or more)
Maybe it is love at first sight but you will have hard time to convince the officials. "Normal" people do not take their marriage decisions in 2 days.
Regards,
Lacrima
lacrima
Member since 14/11/2003
Posted on 14/11/2005 9:20 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
This smells like a rotten egg to me! But you do not need to worry because in Germany everything works according to law so as far as you did not involve in a marriage scandal, it's ok. They will show you way towards your destiny. By the way your case of 2 days marriage is quiet common here in Germany. I don't understand, why some people think it is uncommon and pathetic? you also can marry a 100 year old woman, no problem!!! One thing is for sure you are a rare species in India because this country is known to have good traditional values when it comes to marriage except for some exceptional case like yours. I think you do fit to a more open culture to the likes of Germany. Get going, if not this winter atleast next Christmas you will be blessed by weihnachtsmann.
babloo
Member since 15/02/2005
Posted on 14/11/2005 10:09 pm
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
@deathinc
Don't let yourself be discouraged by others. I believe your undying love for this girl is the only motivation for your being determined going to Germany. Not many people would do such a big sacrifice in the name of love. I just hope that the Visa Officer would also feel the same.
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Akshay
Member since 21/03/2005
Posted on 15/11/2005 3:15 am
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
"One thing is for sure you are a rare species in India because this country is known to have good traditional values when it comes to marriage except for some exceptional case like yours."
which are the GOOD traditional values in Indian marriages - Arranged marriages ????
krieger
Member since 22/08/2005
Posted on 15/11/2005 9:17 am
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
"Don't let yourself be discouraged by others"
Yep.. don't let yourself be discouraged by others, having been denied already 3 times for the visa application gives you already the best perspectives..
lacrima
Member since 14/11/2003
Posted on 15/11/2005 9:45 am
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
@krieger
"which are the GOOD traditional values in Indian marriages - Arranged marriages ????"
I'm quite interested to know, what do you know much about traditional values in indian marriages/culture???
If you think only "Arranged marriages", i only can say, that is not right, but unfortunatly indian traditional things donot have big books to read about traditions like others.
Do you have any information that Mr. Deathinc did have arranged marriage?
Please don't take my questions arrogant, i'm very curious (as always) to know the things that how different country/cultural people think of others.
instructor
Member since 01/09/2005
Posted on 15/11/2005 10:57 am
Re: I am back.please help me in spouse visa.
which are the GOOD traditional values in Indian marriages - Arranged marriages ????
Both arranged and love marriages are conducted in traditional way. If you want to know, how they are conducted then google it to find out resources. Don't drag your feet on this too much.
babloo
Member since 15/02/2005
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