Posted on 17/02/2006 1:44 pm

Re: join my love

@marroqi

OK fine, Mr.Marroqi I owe you an apology for mistaking you as (prospective) one of many free-loaders honoring Germany. Now, you may well ask why do I give a f**k, especially when Germany is not my homeland.

The problem is not with you, but with the cliché these free-loaders have cultivated over the years. As a result the majority of immigrant-community is looked upon suspiciously. This has nothing to do with you being a Moroccan, I have also seen Indians in free-loaders community. And professionals(IT/ non-IT) like us, regardless of our qualification and contribution towards economy, end-up facing the discrimination.

And LOVE? Why in the majority of intercountry love-affairs, Romeo are poor-east-european/ african/3rd-world who somehow fall in love with a german Juliet (and vice versa)?

You also mentioned that you want your lady-love to be in your homeland. With all due respect, this is sort of Fata-Morgana, if this news-article is to be believed:
http://service.spi...0,1518,344444,00.html

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Posted on 17/02/2006 4:57 pm

Re: join my love

"OK fine, Mr.Marroqi I owe you an apology for mistaking you as (prospective) one of many free-loaders honoring Germany. Now, you may well ask why do I give a f**k, especially when Germany is not my homeland. "

Akshay,
So, you are someone who shoots first and then ask questions. wow!!


"The problem is not with you, but with the cliché these free-loaders have cultivated over the years. As a result the majority of immigrant-community is looked upon suspiciously."

This shows how insecure and inconfident you are!! If you arent living with social help, then be proud urself and who cares what others think of you!!Unless,ofcourse you always seek other peoples approval whenever you leave your house?



""This has nothing to do with you being a Moroccan, I have also seen Indians in free-loaders community. And professionals(IT/ non-IT) like us, regardless of our qualification and contribution towards economy, end-up facing the discrimination.""

So, do you intend to police people who wants to come to Germany? (We would see lot of dead around)


""And LOVE? Why in the majority of intercountry love-affairs, Romeo are poor-east-european/ african/3rd-world who somehow fall in love with a german Juliet (and vice versa)?""

This shows how narrow and small your world really is. I dont really need to add more here.


""You also mentioned that you want your lady-love to be in your homeland. With all due respect, this is sort of Fata-Morgana, if this news-article is to be believed:
http://service.spi...4,00.html""

I didnt bother to check the html doc but i didnt have to look in to know ur insinuation.
So, Akshay,
Learn to have some humility and dont drag the name of your country down and spoil the good reputation of other Indians. If you have no constructive advice here, keep your GOBS shut.

Posted on 17/02/2006 8:08 pm

Re: join my love

@Akshay
Aha somewhere i read u were askin about me so im here
hru doin man?aha in my thread u were supporting me but this time not
@all
hey dont make him discourage. hey Mr.Marroqi try to search all threads posted by me then u
will see lot of things can be possible which seems tough
i think ur case is bit same as mine.
Good Luck.

Posted on 18/02/2006 7:25 pm

Re: join my love

sorry for ur women.
but im confused. first make it clear,because of her health hav u decided to join her or u still want that she should come to u.
if its the second case then it is simple.and i dont think in that case u will hav too much problem.
but if its the first case then.

first remember in any case u able to join her with some different way(evenif u marry her in some easy eu countries like(denmark) but when u r applying for spouse visa u will be sent back to ur home country and from there u hav to apply(and remebember then ABH will be asking u lot of questions regarding ur previous visit and most of the time it makes lot of delay).

2 remember she has to divorce her husband and it will take atleast 1 year.

3 remember if u r planing to join her in D then in any case dont try to fool the states people(ABH) otherwise u will be facing lot of problem.

4 there r two things that can be done but that will only happen after ur girlfriends divorce.
Either she marry u in ur home country or u apply for intend to marry visa.
Although embassy will not tell u the full details.but one thing which is very necessary that u need to show per month income of 600*2 euro.As u r not earning there and ur wife is also not doing anything.so i think solution is ur wife parents or friends must be having that much income so they can take care of both of u(atleast on papers).
//am looking for a way to get closer to her,but without her help!//
hm for this situation apply for tourist visa if D not work then apply from greece or france.
and get close to her but honestly this is not the solution and after expiring of this visa u hav to go back to home country.

at the end dont get dissapoint but remember if u starts from now it will take atleast 1.8 years till u will be with her forever(in a leagle way in germany).
I hav one friend who had the same problem and choosed the easyways to be with his grlfriend and atlast it takes more than 3 years(and finally he had to follow the same procedure).
but inbetween they had the baby, that made the things much easier for them.
i wish all the best for ur love.
@all
If i am wrong then correct me pls.